Sunday, August 22, 2010

love trainer in the making?

layak kah aku menjadi love trainer?
sebab diri sendiri pun gagal in love..huhuhu~~

wanna share cerite about a friend of mine..my best friend i should said
we have been friend since i was 13 if i'm not mistaken..

for all this while i do know that he's dating sumone, but he refuse to tell who is the girl
as for me..kalo x nak cerite sudah, malas nak paksa..
actually 8 years back i've guess the girl name correctly, but he just keep it quite (sebenarnye terkejut how i guess it right)..till finally he confess that he's in relationship with that girl for almost 8 years..
-jaw dropped-
wow lamenye..but...
the confession did not end there
he confessed that he's getting bored, day by day hurmm normally i would say biase lah guys sikit..sikit bosan..
but since i've known him for almost 13years i do know him very well..
he's very patient guy, how on earth he get bored?
why la that girl buat die bored..they must have some big issue unsettle between them.

the thing is, why he spill out everything to me?
coz i know he was very secretive person even to me as his so called best friend.
well since he spill out everything..i'm open for any opinion rite.
i've told him to think deeply..
is he ready to face any consequences ahead?
i just can said,
"kalo rase awk dah x boleh bahagia dengan dia jangan paksa diri, dan kalo awak rasa awak boleh carik kebahagiaan itu dengan orang lain yang lebih paham awak ape salahnye. TAPI kenape after 8 tahun baru rasa bosan? aper die (she) lakukan yang buat awak bosan? penah x awak bagitahu die apa yang awak rasa? kenapa lepas 8 tahun baru awak rasa yang awak give up? kalo 8 tahun boleh sabar kenapa x sabar jer terus sampai bila2 as terimalah that who she is.., well saya hanya boleh bagi pendapat bedasarkan cerita pihak awak, saya x tahu dari pihak dia (she) mungkin bagi dia, that how she show her love to u. lagi pun kalo awak jumpe orang lain, awak pasti awak x bosan dengan orang tu nanti after 8 years nak pulak mase tu awak dah kawen. tak kan dah kawen pun nak ader rase bosan?"
aku tak nak jadi penyebab derang break-up, tapi aku nak tengok kawan baik aku bahagia.
lepas aku tanye semua soklan dan bagi pendapat, look like he was thinking. aku just boleh cakap bagi lah peluang, x sayang ke dah 8 tahun kalo kawen anak dah berderet kot..huhuhu~~

am i a love trainer in a making?
this is not the first case which i consult someone about their love life. aku tak la pulak bagi trainer macam buku yang aku bace tu, "men are like puppies, they need to be trained". aku just nak tengok kawan-kawan aku bahagia.
yup even my ex do seek me for an advice arghhh~~~ how could i handle that situation calmly and still manage to give a very good opinion? batukah hati ini? maybe betul kot berdasarkan pengiraan tarikh lahir aku, aku adalah seorang -penylesaian- i can put aside my feeling just to see other happiness.

voice massage: teringat kata yang aku penah baca dan aku quote suatu masa dahulu. (bace kat sini)


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