long distance relationship (LDR)...♥

been in the situation for a few time in my life.
none of it work out for mE. most of the reason was trust. yeah i'm a bubbly type person so the partner feel insecure which cause conflicts in the relationship. yup tat for my case. =|

but, masih ader jugak pasangan yang mampu bertahan dengan LDR. so wanna share bout few people's life whom i know are really strong in dealing wif LDR. the first gonna be my aunty yang mE leave with now. mE sangat kagum dengan aunty. satu sebab uncle keje kapal, so uncle akan away from family for like 3 months or maybe more. they have 4 kids, 12yo, 11yo, 9yo, 7yo. kids memang kids lah kan nakal, degil, banyak songeh yadda yadda...mE sangat kagum sebab aunty tabah facing all the hardship alone.
tak kisah lah daily basis or wat ever. imagine pagi-pagi kene kejut all the kids, prepare breakfast, send them to school. kalo ade maid tahan lah sikit sebab part breakfast and kemas rumah boleh hand over dah tinggal uruskan anak jer. pening weh pagi-pagi layan kereneh 4 orang budak. yup, sumtime bile aunty outstation i do take over her role. luckily the kids takut dengan mE so derang takut untuk banyak kerenah sangat. yup i'm a strict type of person. bukan anak sendiri boleh lah kan, cube tengok anak sendiri nanti -_-"

bile datang masa-masa kecemasan. kesabaran harus berada ditahap tertinggi. mane lah tahu, salah sorang anak sakit. then kene bahagikan tumpuan anak sakit lagi, anak-anak yang lain lagi. wah sungguh mencabarkan. tu belum anything happen, like tibe2 kereta rosak, kepala paip tercabut, or any series of unfortunate event yang kite tak jangka. for tat i really tabik spring toing..!! toing..!! to my aunty lah. and for information my aunty nih bekerja.

next gonna be my darling mommy udect a.k.a iezawani.
eventho she just married (comparing to my aunty yg dah 13 tahun)  for 2 years, beliau adalah sangat tabah. jumpe suami setiap 5 minggu untuk tempoh 5 minggu. dah la baru kawen, plus now dah ade baby azriff yang tembam itu. yup beliau tabah. she have to handle baby azriff then their business, the house, the study, the family and all that almost alone. ok not really alone la coz she still have family and friend tapi still la rite. she don't have maid and she don't hire nanny..and still she could train baby azriff so well. umo baru 2months plu,s baby azriff dah gi bercuti ke Hong Kong.

hurmm cukup lah dua orang.
but from both of them, one thing yang pasti the distance buatkan kan they love their partner more. satu, sebab fikir dah la jarang jumpe...so bile dapat jumpe memang nak tunjuk kan kasih towards each other lah kan. kalo ade rase tak puas hati pun, they'll think banyak kali if nak gaduh. tak kan baru dapat jumpe dah nak gaduh nanti nak berpisah balik kan, so rugi lah kalo gaduh kan, so... mari berkasih sayang sepenuhnye ^_^

mE..??
belum kawen baru 4 hari tak jumpe pun dah weng. -_-"
but if we have to be apart due to works related things..i already have 2 major advisor in my life. thank you for being a good example for mE. love you both.


voice message: entri adalah sebab en.pencuri hati kene outstation for 4days and flight back on thursday was cancled. so friday baru balik..kan meroyan dibuatnye..huhuhuhu gedix lak aih. belum LDR lagi nih -_-'