Living with the in law life...

Diam tak diam..almost 2 tahun pun i'm living with my in law..

How i'm doing..??

Thanks to God for giving me lootsss of patient and tolarence..

Frankly speaking it's not easy..
Orang cakap kawen campur susah..
But for me same jer sebab kawen nih still pencampuran 2 budaya/cara hidup yang berbeza.
In my case, selame 28tahun hidup dengan cara pn.emak dan en.abah tetibe kene tukar. Kalau sebelum kawen duduk dengan my aunty which quite bebas as long as tahu jaga diri tetibe bile join in law family, keluar masuk rumah kene inform family member. It's good tho, but i'm not used to it...still trying to adapt.

Cara masak yang berbeza. Even tho dah stay in johor for quite some time...darah orang negori tetap mengalir dalam diri so susah sikit nak terime food yg tak pedas..luckily im not a picky eater. Tak kisah makan ape jer pun...tapi bile cakap tak nak makan..masak la lauk negori pun tak akan ku makan...haa tu masalah diri sendiri yang memang jenis malas makan =D apatah lagi since dah gained weight nih :(. But i do thanks for my MIL..she make my life as a housewife waayy easier. Balik kerja tinggal makan jer. And for sure she know en.suami selera better than me. No doubt on it. So I only cook upon request..hehehe budget chef lah sangat kan pn.aino. =P

Cara berborak.

Mungkin kawan2 yang kenal look at me as a bubbly person. Sebenarnye i'm quite a reserve person. I'm not used to hav lots of conversation with family since i'm quite an out spoken. Jadi bile masuk tempat orang have to behave and control myself lah kan hence the quietness. Ko giler nak out spoken tak tentu pasal ade yang kene halau keluar rumah kang...hahahaha.

sebenarnyer banyak jer lagi bende yang berbeza. tapi semua pun terpulang pada diri sendiri untuk terima dengan hati terbuka. bukan senang, tapi tak salah mencuba kan. bile lagi nak kenal in law family ;)

Tapi one thing yang most people terlupe atau sengaja terlupe untuk fikir.., 

bile living with in law bukan kite jer yang akan rase susah as menantu..kite jangan lupe pada pasangan kite jugak. Bukan senang nak divide attention equally to the wife, parents, siblings, other in law and also work. Thinking of this..
i do feel sorry to en.suami. tanggungjawab beliau lagi besar to juggle up attention to all people in the house plus the work. he's role is to be the negotiator..nak jaga hati emak sendiri dan hati isteri. tapi kite sebagai perempuan kene ingat, tanggungjawab anak lelaki dengan ibu bapa tidak akan pernah putus.

Dear en.suami..

so Sorry for sometime i do make the situation awkward or even worst :'( ..

so Sorry for demanding more attention from you..

and so sorry for loosing my tolerence from time to time. Really sorry...

voice massage: can't wait for our own crib to complete. Mirage by the lake....


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